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約會必須觀察對方的5大重點,確認【他】是不是你的真命天子?


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戀愛總是盲目的。剛開始交往時,對於對方的一點小缺陷可能會覺得沒什麼,但是久而久之這些小缺陷會在自己的心裡慢慢地擴大,漸漸地會越看越不順眼,越來越不能忍受。像這樣,若是忽視了最初不自在的感受,在發展到交往以後,這些當初不自在的感受,就很有可能成為分手的原因……。而且,要從根本改變一個人的性格是非常困難的,所以在交往前所感到不自在的部分,將會成為「是否要與這個人交往?」的一個指標。
話雖如此,但是在最初的約會時到底應該注意哪些部分呢?
 
1:這個人會不會遲到
幾分鐘的遲到倒還算是可以忍受的範圍,但是在這之中也有讓女孩子等上好幾個小時的男性。
就算說是為了工作,也應該要確認此人是否反覆地遲到以及有沒有反省之意。這麼一來就可以知道此人是否很珍惜對方的時間了。
 
2:對其他人的態度是否不佳
除了對自己的態度以外,在餐廳、服飾店等對待店員時的態度以及接電話時的口氣等等,都應該作確認。若是對其態度會感到不舒服時,則要好好考慮這樣的情況,在接下來的交往時,有可能成為妳感到壓力的原因。
 
3:自己想去的地方和他想去的地方是否相仿
約會的場所也是判斷自己與對方是否適合的一個關鍵。當對方問自己「妳想去哪裡?」的時候,最重要的是表達自己真正想要去的地方。
若是勉強自己配合他的興趣的話,之後約會時對自己來說可能會成為痛苦的開始。
 
4:衣著方面的品味是否相仿
也是有些人認為「等到真正交往以後,可以一起出去逛街買衣服改變他的品味,所以沒有問題!」,但是其實從服裝上也能看出對方的性格,所以剛開始最好還是要稍微確認一下。
當然,除了衣著整潔的問題以外,雖然不是說一定要穿得很時尚才行,但若是太花俏搶眼的衣著品味或是完全不符合自己興趣的服裝穿著,和這樣的他一起出去約會時,自己會不會覺得有壓力或丟臉,這就有待考量了。
 
5:想法差太多
例如下雨的日子卻約在沒有屋簷的室外見面等,這樣的他是個性使然或是欠缺常識,這就是判斷的指標之一了。
等待的場所是否與自己的感覺相仿也是需要確認的部分。
 
以上為大家介紹了5個確認要點。在約會時,不妨看看對方的舉動跟自己合不合拍喔!
男女的交往關係越長,顧忌越來越少就會見見地露出本性,但是交往後卻走上分手的結局時,其實有很多原因是在最初交往時就已經有預兆了。
「想要交男朋友! 先配合看看再說。」這樣的心情能夠體會,但是為了在將來不會造成自己的痛苦,最初的約會時還是要冷靜下來,好好地判斷這個人是否真的是命中註定的那個他喔!
 

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